Trusted Family Law Representation
in Williamsburg, VA
When your family faces a legal challenge, you need an attorney who understands what you are going through and will stand with you every step of the way.
Our Mission is to guide families through difficult transitions with compassion, clarity, and dignity.
Family law involves representation through life-changing events that affect your children, your finances, and your future.
Our goal is to protect what matters most to you while helping you make confident, informed decisions about the road ahead.
We believe in resolving family law disputes efficiently and respectfully. That means supporting you through each step and remaining a strong advocate in your corner.
Our Values
At Selje Law, you will never be treated like a case number. We recognize that each case is different and requires a customized approach. That's why we tailor our strategy to your specific situation and goals, not a one-size-fits-all formula. But there are core values we adhere to in every case, including:
Compassion
We listen first. Every client is treated with dignity and respect, regardless of how complicated or contentious the situation may be.
Integrity
We provide honest, practical advice at every stage. You will hear the truth at each step so you can make informed decisions.
Excellence
We prepare thoroughly and pursue the strongest strategy for your case. Details matter in family law, and we do not cut corners.
Communication
You stay informed and involved in decisions about your case. We keep you updated on progress and next steps.
Resolution-Focused
We seek fair settlements that save you time, money, and stress. But when a settlement isn't possible, we are fully prepared to litigate.
Child-Centered
When children are involved, their stability and well-being come first. We advocate for arrangements that serve their best interests.
Practice Areas
Divorce
Military Divorce
Custody & Visitation
Child & Spousal Support
Protective Orders
Adoption
Estate Planning
Divorce
Military Divorce
Custody & Visitation
Child & Spousal Support
Protective Orders
Adoption
Estate Planning
Meet Barbara Selje
Barbara Selje is the founder and sole attorney at Selje Law.
Her path to law was not traditional. Barbara spent years as a military spouse, raising three children through multiple relocations and deployments. In 2011, her family became a Gold Star Family when her husband, a U.S. Army helicopter pilot, passed away. That experience taught her what it means to rebuild when life takes an unexpected turn.
She uses that experience to bring perspective, understanding, and compassion to each case.
We serve clients in and around these areas of Virginia:
- Williamsburg
- Hampton
- Newport News
- Poquoson
- Yorktown
- James City County
- York County
Testimonials
real reviews from our clients.
"Compassionate, knowledgeable attorney! You could not ask for a more intelligent, compassionate and experienced lawyer than Barbara Selje! The expert advice and common-sense guidance I received have helped me deal with a very difficult legal situation. Barbara cares about her clients! You can’t go wrong with Barbara on your side!"
-Jane M.
Contact Us
Finding the right firm to represent your family can be overwhelming. Let's talk about your case and the best way to proceed for your situation.
How long has Selje Law been serving Williamsburg families?
Selje Law, PLLC was established in March 2020. Attorney Barbara Selje brings experience from her time as a volunteer attorney at Legal Aid Society of Eastern Virginia, where she handled all areas of family law including military divorces.
What areas does Selje Law serve?
We represent clients throughout the Virginia Peninsula and Hampton Roads, including the cities of Williamsburg, Hampton, Newport News, Yorktown, and Poquoson, as well as James City County and York County.
Does Selje Law have experience with military divorce?
Yes. Attorney Selje is a military spouse and Gold Star widow who understands the specific challenges military families face. She has handled military divorces involving retirement division, TRICARE eligibility, deployment-related custody issues, and other matters governed by federal law.
Will my case go to trial?
Not necessarily. We pursue negotiated solutions when possible because they save you time, money, and stress. But when the other side will not be reasonable, we are fully prepared to advocate for you in court.
